A Mitra put up a comment for my last post asking me if I felt the same way about "her" as she does or not. Not going straight to the question whose answer on my part is a strong yes, I would like to philosophize a bit and make my answer seem less emotional. I first have to say I don't mean to teach anyone anything, all I say is what I have learned so I'm pretty much a learner myself as far as this story goes.
We are always looking for people whom we love, and if you happen to have a big open loving nature there may be many people you can potentially love but what matters here is whether you love is appreciated or not. Don't you forget, you have to be extremley great to be able to experience love ,which is "prefering someone to your own dear self". This is why I always respect lovers who are great enough to love. But there is a catch there, most of the time love remains unanswered. I'm not to blame anyone for this since it's ,in my opinion, the elussive nature of love. I personally put this down to human nature which causes the beloved to get the impression that he's far better than the lover, who is more than a human as he has put his self aside. To love is one degree of perfection and to welcome someone's love is a far greater level of human perfection. You need to be infitely good to understand that only because some one loves you he/she is not any less than you and probably quite the opposite.More difficult is to love them back.
Most of us are sick of people who don't understand our feelings, people who simply distance themselves from us as we get closer to them, confused about what we should do and what we shouldn't. Yet it's again us who escape from those who love them . This is the selfish game of human beings.
and now on the question I am asked
"This is, I hope, my last experience of love; This time I didn't let the same story happen to me. Confident of my self I found one who loves me more than life itself and then I am trying to pay her ten times more love back."
Ibeleive you shouldn't try to find some one you really love because you are very probable to be the loser , You should try to find some one who loves you and then love them back as strongly as you can.
PS. The word loser I have used is not a good one since I THINK LOVE IS NOT A GAME.
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خیلی وقت وبلاگت می خونم تا حالا واست پیام نذاشته بودم ، فقط امروز که از دوست داشتن نوشتی می خواستم بدونی شاید یکی دوست داشته باشه، به امیدت زندگی کنه و هیچوقت تو حتی ندونی. با این همه بازم هر هفته میام و مطالبت می خونم. م
harfeto ghabul nadaram.uni ke to migi eshgh nist "moamelast".
inke sabr konim ta yeki vasamun bemire bad vasash tab konim yani moamele.eshgh paktar az in harfast.eshghe haghighi ro har kasi nemitune becheshe.va dark kone va har kasi in saadat ro nadare.vase hamne alan tu in dore zamune har tarafo ngah koni "leili o majnun" rikhte...tarze dideto taghir bede,eshgho ba moamele va sanjidan ghati nakon duste man!!!in sahih nist ke age un ashegh shod manam ....age nashod manam ...!!!in ehtiyate.beghole hafeze:صلاح کار کجا و من خراب کجا...
va be ghole nima:cheshmharo bayad shost,jure digar bayad did...
salam doost azize bi nam. khoshhalam ke nazar dadi, in yani ke nazar dari.
baraye inke bishtar tozih bedam, faghat be nazare man, eshgh marhale i e ke adam toosh khodesh ro faramoosh mikone va fard dige i o be khodesh tarjih mide. in tarjih e digari agar baraye kasi bashe ke arzesh e eshgh varzidan ro nadare chizi joz sarab nist.be nazar e amn kamale ensan dar kenar gozashtan mohemtarin vizhegi e zatish yani khodkhahi e va faghat inchenuin ensani mitoone ashegh bashe va layeghe eshgh varzidane. be nazar e man eshgh nakhodagah etefagh nemiofte va bad az tatbigh tasvire ideal e zehni e fard va yek mesdaghe khareji mohaghagh mishe pas unghadham bi hesab ketabo bi fekr nist.
in ke kasi divane var asheghe to bashe behtarin neshane ye dashtan e kamale matloob e mashoogh shodane.
vali dooste azize zibayi eshgh dar toole tarikh nashi az tafsirhaye motefavet un boode, va ma chera in zibayi ro kharab konim o donbale esbat e tarif e khodemoon az eshgh bashim.
be nazaram dusti ke jorat nakarde esmesho bezare va mige in moamelas khodesh manie eshgho nafahmide
chon age mifahmid maniye vagheiye moamele ro ham mifahmid
behtare chand bare bekhune matno ta befahme manzure nevisande chi bude
merci khanoome razmande az comment ghashangetoon.
be nazare man yeki az bozrgtarin khatarat baraye yek jame e edeaye enhesar e haghighat dar yek ideology ya tarif va gheraat e khas az yek chiz e. be khatere hamin man ham be hich vajh edea nadaram ke nazaratam dorost e ama hadeaghal ba tajrobe va motale be va dar toole zaman beheshoon residam va in ghabele ehteram e.
man asheghe nazarat e mokhalefam chon man o be chalesh mikeshan va vadar be tafakor mikonan.
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